Season 3, Ep3: Modern Dating: Apps, First Dates & Red Flags

In this episode, Dr. Monika Wieliczko discusses the practical aspects of dating after loss, focusing on modern dating apps, preparing for first dates, and identifying red flags. She emphasises the importance of emotional wellbeing and provides insights on choosing the right dating app based on individual intentions, as well as tips for creating an authentic dating profile, setting healthy boundaries, preparing for first dates, navigating conversations, identifying red flags. She emphasises the importance of self-care, emotional safety, and being mindful of expectations while dating.

If you haven’t already, I encourage you to complete the "Are You Ready for a Relationship After Loss?" quiz at www.guidetoafterlife.com/dating. It only takes a couple of minutes, and your personalised results will give you essential insights as you move through this journey.

takeaways

• Dating today is radically different from the past.
• Many widows worry about the digital dating world.
• Choosing the right dating app depends on your intentions. 
• You are allowed to take breaks and say no.
• Choose a comfortable environment for dates.
• Keep your expectations in check; not every date leads to a relationship.
• Trust your instincts if something feels off.
• Know your own value when creating a dating profile.
• Consider what kind of relationship you are looking for.
• Approach dating after loss with an open mind and curiosity.