I'm Dr Monika Wieliczko, a clinical psychologist and a widow. Just like you, I went through a horrendous experience of losing my life partner. I rebuilt my life from scratch and found love after loss.
I made many mistakes on the way, felt confused and unsure of how to navigate the online dating world. I wanted to build a lasting relationship, but I wasn't sure where to start. I was worried people would judge me for choosing to date again.
I went on dates that left me feeling disappointed. I felt hurt and misunderstood. But I kept on trying. At the bottom of my heart, I believed that I deserved to be loved and happy again despite my loss.
After a while, I understood what was holding me back. I realised I was terrified of getting hurt again. I knew what the ultimate end of every love story was; I was going to lose again. There is no happy ever after, I said to myself. Why would I let myself fall in love again, knowing how much it hurts at the end?
I was confronted with death too early, and it left a painful mark that needed addressing. Once I confronted myself with the fact that I was the one who was wasting my time trying to protect myself from the very thing that I crave the most, to feel loved and to love again, my dating experience transformed.
As a psychologist, I have helped countless couples improve their relationship with themselves and their other half.
In this masterclass, I will share with you my proven method for getting ready to love after loss.
